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Master the Art of Flirting

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ExpoShort: Flirting is an incredibly fast and powerful way to attract a woman.  Many men struggle with it, not realizing that a few simple flirting tips for guys can dramatically increase any man’s ability to flirt successfully.  If you’re interested in mastering flirting, here are some flirting tips for guys that you can use to attract women wherever you go.

Flirting is the seductive dance between giving into your desires and leaving her wanting more. If you wish to success with women, you need to master this art! 

Caution: It is advised to take this in a proper and healthy way. One Should not be get addicted to it as it may affect your love life

Tip #1 – Look Your Best & Groom Yourself

Flirting is all about attracting the other one you’re interested in. No matter whether this is your first encounter with the person, or you’re trying to keep your relationship spicy, you need to look your best!

Your appearance is the most crucial thing that attracts another individual, and should be your top priority.

Keep in mind: When a person is well-groomed, it shows that they care about their look and take pride in how they present themselves. Any man who is not well-kept gives off the impression that they’re lazy and don’t value themselves.

Tip #2 – Maintain High Confidence in Yourself

Confidence is a very attractive quality not only to a woman but men as well.  A confident man makes a woman feel safe and secure! A man who is not confident but timid and unsure of himself is not attractive to anyone.

The act of flirting requires you just to be yourself and throw caution to the wind.

If you’re not comfortable being forward and playful, then you need to start working on your self-esteem ASAP! Carry yourself well, do not be afraid to make the first move and don’t be shy. If you have low self-esteem, fake it until you finally gain your natural confidence!

Tip #3 – Use The Right Body Language to Attract Mates

When it comes to flirting, it may not be what you say, but what you don’t say that attracts the other person. We pick up on other people hitting on us through our body language, a tone of voice and what we say.

What we say makes up only 7 percent of the equation, while body language makes up a whopping 55%! To communicate your interest in her, try sending signals by:

  • Raising your eyebrow at her.
  • Accidentally bump into her on your way to the bathroom or at the bar.
  • Touch her arm, back, shoulder or knee – in a way that’s not going to creep her out.
  • Stay open (i.e. don’t cross your arms or legs).
  • Move in close to listen to the conversation.
  • Give her a smile.
  • Loosen your tie.

Pay attention: Mirroring each other’s body language can also be a major turn-on. People are generally attracted to others that mimic their moves. It helps two strangers bond and sympathize with each other, but also indicates that you have a mutual interest in each other.

Tip #4 – Smile & Maintain Eye Contact

Smiling and making eye contact are the basics of flirting. Gals do it well. A smile shows you’re interested. Your eyes show your desire and are incredibly communicative.

The right look can make a gal feel like being the only one in the room with you.

Caution: There’s a difference between flirting and being downright creepy. If your person of interest catches you staring, lock eyes with them for a moment, smile and then look away. Returning a warm smile says ‘more please.’

 Staring too long and too intently may make you come off as a creep. Even after initial contact smiling and deep looks into her eyes are crucial!

Tip #5 – End The Conversation with a Compliment Before She Does

When the talking ends, leave a good impression with a compliment, one she will remember and keep her thinking about you.

It’s also an excellent way to make a smooth exit!

Tell her  it was nice talking to her and wish her luck on something that the two of you talked about. Tell her to have a good night and enjoy!

Make sure that you compliment her and end the conversation before she does. Doing this first puts you in charge and ends the interaction the way you want to.

Tip #6 – You Need a Lot of Practice

To master the art of flirting, you need to practice – a lot. Make it a point to get out and start gaining experience with women.

Pay attention: Sure, you may not always succeed, but you’ll learn what works and what doesn’t – first-hand!

FLIRTING MISTAKES

Just as there are so many things you can do to show you’re interested, there are also signals you can give – some without even meaning to – that show you’re not interested. Here are a few:

  • Crossing your arms makes you look unapproachable and closed off (if you want something to do with your hands, play with your jewelry or hair a little, but no so much that you seem nervous).
  • Don’t “magically appear” next to him every time you spot him alone. This makes you seem like a stalker.
  • If he says that he has to leave, don’t try to keep him; it will make you seem desperate and clingy.
  • If he gives you his number, don’t call or text as soon as he leaves your side. He needs time to miss you. If he doesn’t respond to your first call/text, wait for him to reply before contacting him again.
  • Try to avoid lowering your chin/putting your head down. This will make you seem scared.

 

 

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